Odds and Ends
(Peterson’s Magazine 1881)
Our lives are full of odds and ends,
First one and then another,
And though we see not how or when,
They’re deftly wove together.
The weaver has a master’s skill,
And proves it by this token,
No loop is dropped, no strand is missed,
And not a thread is broken.
And not a shred is thrown aside,
So careful is the weaver,
Who joining all, with wondrous skill,
Weaves odds and ends together.
Just Scraps - Quilts in Community Ohio's Traditions
From Quilts in Community Ohio's Traditions by the Ohio Quilt Research Project, 1991 we have these very interesting news stories and diary entries:
Painsville Telegraph
October 28, 1858
Ellen C. Thompson, a little girl between six and seven years old, had a Quilt of piece-work on exhibition at the late Fair. Her little fingers have been turned to some account at a very early age. We don't think that many little girls in this county can say as much.
Lucinda Cornell
Westerville, Franklin County
August 9, 1888
Ripped up 2 dresses, my wedding dress and an old brown dress that was Hollys, to make quilt of.
Godey's Lady's Book
December 1887
We regretted much the time and energy spent on the most childish, and unsatisfactory of all work done with the needle, "crazy" patchwork....
Miss Leslie's Lady's House-Book
1853
The custom of buying new calico, to cut into various ingenious figures for what was called handsome patch-work, has become obsolete. - Eliza Leslie
Firelands Pioneer, 1858
Printed muslins, which now (1858) can be had for 6 cents, then (1811) cost 75 cents per yard. - Mrs. B. Williams
Just Scraps - The Mother's Book
The Mother's Book
By Mrs. Child, 1831
"A knowledge of domestic duties is beyond all price to a woman. Every one ought to know how to sew, and knit, and mend, and cook, and superintend a household. In every situation of life, high or low, this sort of knowledge is a great advantage. There is no necessity that the gaining of such information should interfere with intellectual acquirement, or even with elegant accomplishments.
A well regulated mind can find time to attend to all. When a girl is nine or ten years old, she should be accomtomed to take some regular share in household duties, and to feel ressponsible for the manner in which it is done, - such as doing her own mending and making, washing the cups and putting them in place, cleaning the silver, dusting the parlor, &c.
This should not be done occasionally, and neglected whenever she finds it convenient; she should consider it her department. When they are older than twelve, girls should begin to take turns in superintending the household, keeping an account of weekly expenses, cooking puddings, pies, cake, &c.
To learn anything effectually, they should actually do these things themselves, - not stand by, and see others do them. It is a great mistake in mothers to make such slaves of themselves, rather than divide their cares with daughters. A variety of employment, and a feeling of trust and responsibility, add very much to the real happiness of young people."
Just Scraps - Sayings
Those who say they "sleep like a baby" haven't got one. (unknown)
A good film is when the price of the dinner, the theatre admission and the babysitter were worth it. (Alfred Hitchcock)
Adventure is worthwhile. (Amelia Earhart)
If people turn to look at you on the street, you are not well dressed. (Beau Brummel)
Genius without education is like silver in the mine. (Ben Franklin)
"I want to see the boss of the house," said the peddler to Mrs. D., who had answered the ring. 'I'm sorry,' she replied, as she gently closed the door, 'but the baby is asleep just now."
Home & Health, 1907
Just Scraps - Advice
Mother’s advice: Because I said so, that’s why.
Mother's advice: Keep crying and I’ll give you something to cry about.
Mother's advice: It's only your mother who's going to tell you the truth.
Mother's advice: I suppose you think you're not going to be a parent one day too.
Mother's advice: I'm not asking you - I'm telling you.
19th Century Slang: Biggest toad in the puddle - most important person in a group.
19th Century Slang: catawamptiously chewed up - utterly defeated, badly beaten.
Franklin D. Roosevelt: “Do what you feel in your heart to be right - for you'll be criticized anyway.”
Louisa May Alcott: "Housekeeping ain't no joke." "Now we are expected to be as wise as men who have had generations of all the help there is, and we scarcely anything."
Mark Twain: "A banker is a fellow who lends you his umbrella when the sun is shining, but wants it back the minute it begins to rain."
Did you know this about children's games: Swings existed on the island of Crete since 1600 BC, and jacks or knucklebones, a game that involves tossing and then catching five or more jacks, evolved from ancient Greece. Follow-the-leader goes back to the 12th century. Blind man's bluff dates back more than 2,000 years. Other games from the past include spinning tops, flying kites, playing with marbles, hide-and-seek, cat's cradle - all of them are known around the world.